Andrew Carter
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Know how you spend your time
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8 hours sleeping/day (56/week)
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8 hours working/day (40/week)
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6 hours cooking/week
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11 hours eating/week
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Everything else
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Craig Curelop | BiggerPockets.com
I often meet entrepreneurs who say something along the lines of “Once I get to six figures, I’ll be happy.”
But then they get there, and guess what? They’re as stressed and burnt out as ever.
I call this getting stuck in the “six-figure hamster wheel,” and it’s a vicious cycle I’ve lost myself in before. It’s hard to escape, and most people try to overcome it with even more hustle. After all, it was “hustle mode” that got them to six figures, so more will get you to seven figures … right?
Wrong!
Hustling to seven figures is not the answer.
And this is why I believe every single entrepreneur needs to build a seven-figure business if they are ever to fulfill their potential and live a life of freedom, abundance and happiness.
Most people don’t want to take the hard route. They’re driven by security and comfort, and they are afraid to take the necessary risk to achieve what they really want. Yet, the riskiest thing you can ever do is to not live up to your fullest potential!
Every entrepreneur should strive to have a profitable seven-figure business, and no, it’s not about the money. It’s not about the bragging rights. It’s not about the fame or status. It’s not even about the lifestyle that comes with it.
Related: 25 Common Characteristics of Successful Entrepreneurs
The reason you need a seven-figure business is simple: freedom.
With freedom, you can truly escape “hustle mode” forever. That isn’t to say you won’t have to work hard and put in the hours, but never again will you find yourself caught in the hamster wheel where every time you scale to a new level, it’s at the expense of your health and sanity.
A seven-figure business gives you the freedom to build a world-class team, invest in yourself (mindset, therapy, health), regain control of your time (so you have more time to do what you do best) and work “on” your business, rather than get stuck inside it.
At six figures, you cannot do any of this. I’ve tried it, and I’ve seen plenty of other people try, too. But it doesn’t happen. You can live a happy life at six figures, sure. But a life of true freedom? Nope!
You. Because although you may fear failure, chances are you fear success even more.
Freedom, for most, is scary. It forces you to tap into your fullest potential and live it, because you no longer have the excuse of hustling, a lack of money or not enough time. So, you ask yourself, Who will I become when I can truly be myself?
I remember the anxiety I felt when I asked this question on a random Thursday night. I almost had a panic attack, because I realized I didn’t know the answer. What happens now that I’m out of debt? I asked. Who will I become? What will I create? Will people care? How can I make an impact? What impact do I even want to make?
Well, I’m here to tell you not to panic like I did. Because you’ll become the exact person you need to be in order to live out your vision and purpose.
Related: 9 Steps to Increase the Value of Your Business
This is the exact reason why you need to build a seven-figure business. Because once you reach this level, you remove all the excuses standing between you and your true potential, and gain the freedom you need to make this happen. When you have true freedom, you finally understand what you’re most passionate about and what impact you want to make in this world.
It’s impossible to truly know yourself when you’re stressing over the day-to-day, caught in “hustle mode.” How are you going to pay your bills? How is your business actually going to work? Is there enough money coming in? Are you charging enough?
It’s impossible to fulfill your potential if these questions consume you each day. It doesn’t matter how smart you are or how talented you may be; you cannot be your best self with this sort of stress. You must elevate to a higher level of understanding and thinking, and the best way to do this is to have a near-limitless level of freedom.
Having a profitable, seven-figure business gives you this!
So, no matter who you are and what impact you wish to have, the key to unlocking this is to scale to seven figures so you can escape the “six-figure hamster wheel,” say goodbye to “hustle mode” and welcome true freedom, true abundance and true success.
Guest Writer, Entrepreneur
There is much debate these days as to whether the gig economy is growing or shrinking, but most agree it’s still massive and, importantly, ripe for disruption. Distributed ledger-based technologies — commonly known as blockchain — is one of the forces with the most potential to affect the gig economy over the next several years. This potential is of particular interest to enterprises, which has recently shown an increased reliance on alternative work arrangements.
Corporations like FedEx, P&G and Verizon now outsource between 20-50 percent of their jobs. They embrace this independent workforce to increase efficiency and remain nimble. This is big news for the gig economy and the platforms that drive it. But those on both sides of the hire/hired coin can recite chapter and verse the problems they encounter in this new labor bazaar. Whether it’s low-pay, increased income inequality, lack of benefits, unpredictable performance, broken contracts, scope creep or any of the other issues that come with gigging and/or using an independent workforce, it’s clear there are areas that need improvement if the gig economy is going to continue to be a reliable source of alternative work arrangements for enterprises.
Enter blockchain and the ongoing innovations that are shaping that technology today. A transparent, trusted and verifiable tech stack that drives gig work could raise pay, cut overhead, drive scalability and fair labor practices for both workers and employers. These capabilities are of major importance to corporations as technical innovation and fair play are needed to sustain an independent workforce model they’ve come to rely on.
One of the dilemmas for enterprises is that a crucial part of the gig economy’s growth to date has been centralized platforms such as Uber, MTurk or Fiverr. They do a great job of connecting work with workers, providing a framework for compensation and a system for tracking work processes. Yet, most of these platforms are tolerated, not celebrated — particularly when they pocket a large percentage of a job’s value without offering many of the benefits workers find in more traditional work arrangements.
Fiverr, for example, is a centralized two-sided platform for people to buy and sell a variety of digital services typically offered by freelance contractors. Fiverr also takes a 20 percent cut of all transactions to the detriment of both worker and enterprise by introducing inefficiencies and pain points that threaten the long-term viability of the gig arrangement. Blockchain could eliminate that.
Ethlance is a blockchain-based project launched by District0x. It offers a platform that combines smart contracts, a file exchange protocol and a web interface to allow people to sell their goods and services on the ethereum blockchain. Ethlance is totally free because it’s 100 percent open source and runs at no cost — unlike Fiverr, which requires a centralized database and online hosting. Chronobank is another blockchain-based company attempting to disrupt the centralized platform model. It launched its LaborX platform to connect gig workers with jobs anywhere in the world for just 1 percent of the job’s pay. For both companies, it’s still early days as far as adoption rates go, but with so much at stake, smart businesses will need to consider these sorts of solutions to help the gig economy continue to attract and maintain a large workforce pool without alienating it or burning it out.
from Bottom Line Health
I know this runs contrary to every meme and bit of self-help advice you’ve ever heard; even thinking of it makes you look at your refrigerator magnets or those framed little sayings you held so dear.
But, alas, affirmations don’t work.
Research shows that no matter how often you say, “I will be stronger when challenged,” that declaration won’t, in fact, motivate you to be stronger the next time there’s a boulder in your path.
Ditto for, “I am beautiful and empowered,” and any other positive, first-person statement that supposedly will help you conquer a belief about yourself that is less than positive.
So, you’re looking at the mountain and you keep repeating, “I will climb it, I will climb it,” but does that really help? It doesn’t.
The affirmation is more like a doorstop. It doesn’t throw your brain into high gear, trying to figure out precisely how you’re going to climb that mountain and, moreover, how you’re going to overcome the impediments and obstacles that could doom your climb to failure.
Obviously, the downside to the affirmation also applies to everyday life and how you can be more resilient and resourceful the next time life puts a boulder in your path. Or what plan of action you should take when you pledge that you’ll improve your communication skills or learn to manage your anxiety or any other goal you might set.
But, thankfully, there’s a solution: It’s called a question.
Research by Ibrahim Senay and his colleagues showed that participants trying to solve anagrams fared better when they prepped themselves by writing down “Will I succeed?” twenty times and fared worse when they prepped with the affirmation statement “I will succeed.” So why is that? Following are five reasons you must toss those affirmations and start usingquestions to gear yourself up when you need to.
When you ask yourself “Will I succeed?” your mind begins to search for the answers to what you could do to succeed and, equally, what might stand in the way of your possible success. Unlike the affirmation which just puts a smile on your face and rose-colored glasses on the bridge of your nose, the question forces you to plan.
You’ve turned to affirmations in an effort to convince yourself that you can do something you’ve previously either had trouble with or outright failed at. Let’s say that you’ve had trouble voicing your own needs in relationships and revert to being a people-pleaser as a default setting. Telling yourself that “I will speak my mind” won’t force you into examining what precisely stops you from doing so. By comparison, asking “Will I speak my mind?” should bring up both the historical reasons why you haven’t and potentially ways that you can in the future. This is especially valuable if you’re tackling a problem that is part of a repetitive pattern in life
In my latest book, Daughter Detox: Recovering from an Unloving Mother and Reclaiming Your Life, I detail what I call “default settings,” or unconscious behaviors learned in response to an unloving mother’s treatment, many of which are maladaptive in nature. Using the format of the question, research shows, facilitates understanding. Let’s say that your goal is to be less self-critical and that one way to do that is be more self-compassionate. (This is research based.) Asking yourself “Will I be self-compassionate?” opens the door to other questions, including why it’s so hard for you to be accepting of yourself and what obstacles stand in your way. An affirmation won’t do that.
The chances are good that you suspect that your inability to get something done—deal with relationships, stop procrastinating, lose weight, or any other goal—has to do with some flaw in your character, which it doesn’t. Asking yourself, “Will I manage my relationships better?” “Will I stop procrastinating?” “Will I lose weight” etc. gets you into a proactive stance and forces you to come to terms with the underlying reasons you haven’t been able to get whatever it is done.
This is more of a summary point rather an additional one but it’s worth emphasizing.
When you use affirmations, you’re essentially confirming something about yourself you wish to be true. But what if your affirmation is based on something you’re not seeing about yourself? What if you’re not reaching your goals because you’re not seeing the obstacles clearly? What if you’re having trouble losing weight because you haven’t confronted how you self-soothe with food?
If that’s true, then managing your stress has to be step one before you can lose weight, and no affirmation about losing weight is going help. But asking, “Will I manage stress better?” will help get you on the right path.
What if you haven’t gotten as far in your career because you haven’t tackled how you avoid failure at all costs and are unable to take any risks? Questioning that fear of failure, rather than repeating, “I will get a better job,” or “I will be promoted,” over and over, will more likely put you on the path.
A question yields answers; a statement doesn’t.
Senay, Ibrahim, Dolores Albarracín, and Kenji Noguchi, “Motivating Goal-Directed Behavior Through Introspective Self-Talk: The Role of the Interrogative Form of Simple Future Tense” Psychological Science (2010), vol.21(4), 499-504.
This blog was originally published by Leaders in Heels.
At some point in their careers, many leaders will opt to receive high-level coaching. Executive coaching is one of the best investments you will ever make in yourself. A good coach helps you gain clarity and provides a safe yet challenging environment for you to practice self-awareness and to learn from experience. Whether you want to learn how to be more effective at work, need guidance in navigating a transition in the workplace, want to hit the ground running in a new leadership position, or simply want to further develop certain skills, the right coaching can help you accelerate your learning curve, gain more confidence, and reap benefit after benefit.
Moving forward with an executive coach is a very big investment, not to mention an important commitment. Just as you might ‘shop around’ for other big investments, you want to do the same when it comes to a coach. Below are 5 things to keep in mind to make the most of your leadership coaching.
A discovery session is an informal conversation that precedes a commitment to coaching. Think of it as a ‘get to know you’ conversation. This is your opportunity to speak with your potential coach, discuss your challenges and goals, and truly gauge whether or not you and your potential coach are a good fit.
Though this is a conversation, think of it also as an interview. You’re trying to find the right individual to help you achieve your goals. Don’t be afraid to ask your coach questions about their experiences, their methods, their accreditations, and so on. Most importantly, don’t feel pressured to make a commitment at the end of this conversation. If you want to think it over, you’re under no obligation to commit on the spot, and you shouldn’t feel as if your coach is pressuring you to move forward.
Though this is a conversation, think of it also as an interview.
Throughout the conversation, check in with yourself: do you feel comfortable and relaxed with this coach? Remember, you’ll be spending a great deal of time with them, so this is important.
Are you a very structured and time-conscious person? Then you might find it frustrating to work with a coach who is always late or reschedules appointments regularly. Are you very organized? Then a coach who doesn’t follow-up with you as promised may drive you up the wall. Maybe you’re a deep, reflective thinker who needs time to process information. If that’s the case, then a coach who talks all the time and doesn’t give you thinking space will overwhelm you rather quickly.
An expert coach will gauge your style and seamlessly adapt to you, but if you find that your coach isn’t doing this, then it’s time to move on and find someone else who’s a better match. That said, get clear on who you are as a person, as a leader, and as a thinker…and then ask yourself what qualities you need to have in a coach in order to feel as if your regular coaching sessions are spaces in which you can grow and thrive.
A coach often wears a number of hats during the coaching experience. They can be a feedback provider, reflective thinking partner, expert mentor, practice partner, accountability creator, positive reinforce, supporter, and more. Ideally, your coach will flexibly switch hats depending on your needs at the time, which is why it’s important you know what those needs are.
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One of the worst things you can do is enter into a coaching commitment with your head full of doubts
Don’t be afraid to ask for testimonials and references. An expert coach who’s worked with countless people and has helped them to achieve their goals will be more than happy to point you in the right direction when it comes to praise from past clients. The same goes for qualifications and accreditations, especially if you’re interested in working on specific skillsets or with certain diagnostics/psychometrics.
One of the worst things you can do is enter into a coaching commitment with your head full of doubts regarding your coach’s qualifications. You’ll begin to question their guidance at every turn, which will result in a waste of time, money, and energy. However, when you do feel confident in your coach’s expertise, it’ll motivate you to put their recommendations into practice and you’ll find yourself growing like never before.
You and your coach should both be clear about the timeframe of your coaching commitment. This is best outlined within a formal contract or agreement that both parties sign. Such an agreement will highlight the duration of the coaching as well as the cost of the investment.
In addition to regular sessions, there may also be a provision for ‘on demand’ sessions. Just as well, there should be an ‘out clause’ that allows you to discontinue coaching if you at any time don’t feel that you’re getting what was agreed upon.
Finally, you and your coach should both be clear about the objectives of the coaching. What is it that you want to achieve over the course of executive coaching? How would you like to grow? What would you like to learn about yourself? What goals would you like to accomplish? What skills would you like to acquire and/or develop further?
These objectives will help to create a structured approach in your coaching sessions. You and your coach should also discuss how you both plan on measuring your progress from session to session.
Additionally, ensure that your coach has a system in place to keep you moving forward in between sessions. This might mean following up with you with a reminder of next action steps, providing you with key notes from a previous session, and/or delivering any promised materials or readings.
These are 5 ways you can ensure that you make the most of your next commitment with an executive coach. Of course, your results aren’t dependent on your coach alone. You need to be committed to making change and be prepared to put in the time and energy. The leaders I work with who achieve the biggest outcomes are people with skin in the game. They have a very compelling reason to be coached, they are committed, responsive and reflective, and they are open to challenge. As with anything, people who are not committed to change will not get results. Ultimately, while your coach is a trusted guide, the outcome of the sessions depends on you.
There are more than 37 million Americans who suffer from migraines, but the odds aren’t in their favor when it comes to drug treatment.
Sobering statistics: Preventive drugs work for only about half of the people who have these awful headaches—and even when the medication does help, migraine frequency is reduced by only about 50%.
The drugs that stop migraines once they’ve started—mainly prescription triptans (such as sumatriptan, rizatriptan and almotriptan) …as well as OTC nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs, such as ibuprofen (Motrin), and Excedrin Migraine, which contains acetaminophen, aspirin and caffeine—are not always effective. They work best when they’re taken soon after the pain begins. Some of the drugs also cause side effects, such as fatigue or gastrointestinal bleeding. And taking them too often can lead to more—and more severe—headaches, known as overuse headaches or “rebound” headaches. So preventive drugs may be needed to avoid overuse of these medications.
Why are migraines so hard to manage? Experts once believed that migraines were mainly caused by the dilation (widening) of blood vessels in the brain. That’s why drugs usually prescribed for other conditions, such as propranolol, a blood pressure drug, have been used to reverse these changes.
But we now believe that migraines have more to do with overstimulation of the trigeminal nerve in the face and head—this can cause blood vessels in the brain to expand and become inflamed. Treatments that affect this nerve (see below) are often very effective.
Important: Everyone who suffers from migraines should pay attention to possible triggers that precipitate attacks. Some people react to strong scents. Others are vulnerable to specific foods (such as bacon, ripened cheeses or alcohol)…food additives such as monosodium glutamate (MSG)…emotional stress…bright lights, etc. Avoiding triggers can be an effective way to prevent some attacks.
Preventing a migraine is always better than trying to treat one that’s already taken hold. Unfortunately, not all doctors are aware of the more recent effective migraine-prevention approaches. Among the best…
Cefaly. Nearly three years ago, the FDA approved the first device for migraine prevention. Cefaly is known as an external trigeminal nerve stimulationunit. It electrically stimulates branches of the trigeminal nerve, which transmits sensations to the face and head.
How it works: The prescription-only device, which blocks pain signals, includes a battery-powered headband with a reusable, self-adhering electrode. Patients position the headband around the forehead, just above the eyes. It may cause a slight tingling, but no pain. It’s used for 20 minutes once a day. Anyone who has an implanted device in the head, a pacemaker or an implanted defibrillator should not use Cefaly.
Scientific evidence: One study found that more than half of migraine patients who used Cefaly were satisfied and intended to keep using it. The unit costs about $350 and is usually not covered by insurance. The device manufacturer offers a 60-day guarantee, so people can get their money back if it doesn’t seem to help.
Biofeedback. Emotional stress is one of the most common migraine triggers. A biofeedback machine allows people to monitor skin temperature, muscle tension, brain waves and other physical stress responses that affect blood flow in the brain. The idea is that once people feel how they react to stress—with tightened forehead muscles, for example—they can modify their reactions with things like deep breathing, muscle relaxation, etc.
Scientific evidence: There’s strong research showing that biofeedback can reduce both the frequency and severity of migraines by 45% to 60%—but only for patients who are willing to practice.
Biofeedback can work about as well as many drugs, but it takes most people a few months before they’re good at it. It can also be costly because you have to work with an instructor at first. To find a certified biofeedback practitioner, go to the website of the Biofeedback Certification International Alliance, BCIA.org. Insurance often won’t cover it.
Supplements. Some people do well when they combine one or more of these supplements with the previous approaches…*
Riboflavin, a B vitamin, may improve oxygen metabolism in cells. In one study, migraine frequency was reduced by 50% in patients who took riboflavin (400 mg daily).
Feverfew is an herbal headache remedy. Some research shows that 50 mg to 125 mg daily can help prevent and ease migraines, while other studies suggest that it’s no more effective than a placebo. For some people, it might be a helpful addition to more mainstream treatments.
Magnesium (500 mg daily) can help reduce the frequency of migraines in people with low levels of the mineral.
Known for smoothing facial wrinkles, these injections were FDA-approved for chronic migraines in 2010. Botox is a good treatment option for patients who have 15 or more days of headaches each month.
We still do not know how Botox works to prevent headaches. It probably deactivates pain receptors in the scalp and blocks the transmission of nerve signals between the scalp and the brain.
How it’s done: The drug is injected in multiple locations on the head and neck—and the injections are repeated every three months. It sounds terrible, but the injections are only mildly painful. The procedure takes about 15 minutes, and it’s usually covered by insurance if drugs or other treatments haven’t worked. Botox treatments are given by headache specialists. Side effects may include swallowing problems, blurred vision and speech difficulties.
Important: I advise patients to commit to at least three treatments. If Botox relieves your pain, you and your doctor can decide how frequently you need additional treatments. If you haven’t noticed relief after three treatments, Botox is unlikely to be a good choice for you.
*Check with your doctor before taking these supplements, since they can interact with certain medications and/or cause side effects such as diarrhea.